People who regularly read my blogs will know that I am often on holiday.
Usually I spend two or three holidays abroad, not counting the shorter trips,
both within the Netherlands and on the other side of the border. This year I was
already a week in France and also one in Hungary and I have been in six
countries. And the summer vacation yet has to come. Although my holidays are
not long – most last only one or two weeks – when I am back, there is always
the same “trouble”: How to adapt again to the daily routine. I think that many other
persons have this experience, too. In fact, it doesn’t make much difference
whether a holiday was short or long. What counts is that there was a clear
break with the daily routine. This makes that also just a weekend away from
home in a totally different setting can have the same effect, for example an
intensive course or a training camp with people you do not know in another town
or somewhere in the countryside. Also then it can take some time to adapt to
normal life again.
All this sounds rather negative, as if daily life is the norm. But of
course, you go away for the break, for the difference, for what you can learn
during the discussion weekend, and so on. And then, as you certainly will have
experienced, it often happens that the break gives you a fresh start, and, if
you are a thinker like I am, new ideas. This is often explained by the rest and
relaxation you got (and isn’t that also the reason that you have your best
ideas at the moment you are taking a shower?). But in Psychology Today, which is often a source of inspiration for me, I
found another interesting explanation: Doing something different is a good way
to clear your mind. For the main difficulty of problem solving can be that you
try to do it in the old way. Your mind is often full of old problems with old
solutions and what is more obvious than trying to solve new problems with old
approaches? Isn’t it so that this often works? For in many cases new problems
are not really new, but they are variations on an old theme. But sometimes, a
new problem, a new question, is really new, or it is different enough from the
old stuff that old answers do not work. If that is the case, we have to clear
our mind and sweep away what is old. Throw the old stuff in a corner of your
mind, stow it away in a mental cupboard and keep it out of sight. Take distance
from prior experiences for they inhibit new ones. But your daily routine often impedes
this. So by a break, a holiday (or a shower), your mind will be swept. A holiday
and also a short break function like a broom: They sweep away old ideas in your
mind so that you can take distance from them. And then, the disturbance of your
daily routine that you feel when you are back home is no longer a trouble but
it is an asset. For now there is room for something new, for new ideas and for
new solutions.
Source: http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/your-brain-work/201205/back-vacation-dont-waste-your-clear-mind-the-small-stuff
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